we start dating someone inevitably the shadows of past relationships appear, especially in the sexual aspect. And for many good sexes is not only a matter of chemistry, but to know and know what are the things that generate pleasure to the other, so when it comes to someone we know little, it is not always easy to have wonderful encounters. But some tricks can help you to get it, we give you the keys so that you discover how to have good sex with someone new.

Follow these Steps:

First things first: forget about the past and concentrate on the present. If while you are with that new person you constantly think about how your ex-was kissing, how he caressed you etc, you will hardly be able to connect with that new person. To enjoy the sensations and the pleasure generated by this new meeting completely blank and as an open book, ready to learn how to do it.


Even if you have a long time without sex, even if this new person drives you crazy, even if you are on the verge of desperation to go to intercourse immediately, take it easy. When the moment of intimacy is present, do not immediately go to the ring, concentrate on the previous games to discover what you like and try to get the maximum pleasure from the encounter.

Play, explore, taste and taste before moving on to penetration. As far as the rhythm applies the right balance, neither very fast nor very slow, opt for a midpoint in which both enjoy.


It is normal that the first encounters are uncomfortable: sex with someone new involves unveiling your body again, discovering what and how you like it, in addition to the nerves that often both have, along with the desire and desire, because we are human. In short, it is advisable not to stress too much with the subject and not take it to heart.

If you find it hard to undress, if some things that should be sensual go awkwardly, laugh about it and take it easy, go to the next point and simply enjoy what happens without pretending to be a sex bomb.


Do not spare the signs that you're having a good time. When we have time with a couple this one already knows when we are enjoying the need to use words, but sex with someone new is different. So if you like it that way, if you're enjoying and excited, do not be afraid to say it! this will raise the temperature of the meeting and both enjoy more.


Opt for the conventional. And is that many times we seek to impress during the first time with someone new, but we forget that the game can turn us upside down. They are getting to know each other in the intimate level, that is why there are no inventions, elaborate sexual postures or practices that may be uncomfortable for the other. If you connect in the first encounters, then it will be possible to go to this point of experimentation and show you how much you know about sex, but remember that it is something gradual.


And last but not least: be honest. Do not pretend pleasure when you're not feeling it, do not lie about what you loved when it was not like that, do not say that movement seems great if you do not feel anything.

That the first time has not been a success does not indicate that there will be others, the sexual rapport arises little by little, and if it happens in the future it will cost you to rectify and explain that what you said you liked, you really did not like it.

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